Empty Spaces

Hello :-) So I thought I'd try something a little bit different today. Yup. The EX-Boyfriend tag. And seeing as he's now an 'EX' I guess I'll be answering the questions for the both of us.

1) Where did we meet?

I remember this well. We met through work. I had been there for about a year before he started working there. And to be honest, if it weren't for him coming up to me and making the first conversation, I probably wouldnt have really had much interaction with him, as we both worked in different departments and had different shifts.

2) Where was our first date?

We never really had an 'official' date of sorts. We just ended up talking, and then just pretty much hanging out with each other like almost every day. I guess our first outing together was probably a work function. We went together and left together.

3) What was your first impression of me?

If I'm honest, the first thing that came to mind was that I thought he was perhaps a little stalkerish, as the first thing he ever said to me was in relation to my facebook account. He knew what my facebook was, and I had no idea who he was. But ok, first impressions were that we had a lot of common interests.

4) When did you meet my family?

I've never actually met his family, as his parents are separated and they don't actually live together under the same roof. But I met his sister for the first time when he had to drop something off to her at work. And we randomly bumped into his dad when we were out getting some food one day.

5) Weird habit of each other?

Ok, I'll answer for him first. I think he probably thinks my weirdest habit is the fact that Im overly concerned with having things 'perfect'. Hmm and for him, I think a weird habit of his is that he talks far too much, so I end up forgetting what it was he's actually talking about

6) How long have we been together?

Hmm well we've known each other now for about a year and four months. But I can't say exactly how long we've been 'together' as the status of our relationship had been pretty murky at best.

7) Do we have any traditions?

I guess the fact that we hung out so much, that it would break from tradition if we went a day without seeing or speaking to each other

8) An animal that resembles one another?

Hmm for this question I think im gonna have to go with what a colleague of mine said about him before we had actually met. It just sticks in my mind now. A work colleague said he reminded them of that show Angry Beavers. lol. Dont know what animal i would be though.

9) What was our first roadtrip?

I think our first roadtrip was probably Australia day. We drove half way up to the Sunshine Coast, and then decided to go back. It wasn't exactly a roadtrip but it was a decent amoutn of time sitting in a car together.

10) First thing you noticed about me?

I think the first thing i noticed about him was his work pants were probably a size or two too big for him. Well esp. in comparison to mine, because i wore slim fit skinnies. Oh and i also didnt expect that he'd be gay. He doesnt look it. But apart from that, i didnt really take notice of much else.

11) What pisses him off?

What pisses him off the most I think is that I dont normally tell him whats upsetting me, and I tell him things are fine when they clearly aren't. What pisses me off about him is that he lacks emotional intelligence and empathy - he doesn't seem to take much notice of how his actions make me feel.

12) Favorite feature about each other?

He has really beautiful eyes. I have ugly eyes. lol. Im just going off what he's told me, but he says that he likes how I'm so 'cool, calm and collected'.

13) What do we argue about the most?

Actually we never really argue. Most of the times we sort of just debate, because sometimes we both have very different opinions on certain issues. The problem was that whereas even though I may not have agreed to his point of view, I still accepted it and agreed to disagree. He always pushed his opinion through and made me feel like my opinion was invalid.

15) Who wears the pants in the relationship?

Well neither of us wore skirts thats for sure.

16) What drink do I order when we go out to eat?

He rarely ordered drinks whenever we went out, and would either go without, or have free water. That was mainly to do with the fact he was really financially tight. I drink more than I eat, so I would always get somethign to drink, usually either flavoured water, juice or anything fruit flavoured.

17) What size of shoe do I wear?

I have no idea what shoe size he wears. I've never actually bothered to find out. Myself I wear size 6-7

18) My favorite kind of sandwich?

He'd probably be okay with anything because he was never really fussy with food. I dont like sandwiches. But if i were to go to subway or something, my fav is Italian BMT.

19) What would I eat everyday if I could?

He'd definitely be able to live off bacon and eggs. Sometimes he says im too fussy with food, as i wont eat the same thing twice in a row.

20) My favorite cereal?

I dont think i've ever seen him eat cereal before. And i don't eat cereal either. Well sometimes I have oats with either honey or mixed berries, but not very often.

21) My favorite kind of music?

He's madly in love with Taylor Swift. He should go marry her. And then they'd break up. And she'd write a song about how he broke her heart. LOL. I listen to anythign with a good beat and melody. I love acoustic tracks, electro house and trance.

22) My favorite sports team?

Was never really a big sports person so I don't really follow sports, and he's the same way as well.

23) What is my eye color?

Oh gosh, i said his most noticeable feature was probalby his eyes, but I dont actually know what color they were. If i can recall, they were a blue/grey colour? Mine are ugly brown.

24) Who is my best friend?

Oh im not sure if he had a single best friend, but one of his closest friends was a girl we also worked with, and thats how he found my Facebook.

25) Where am I from?

We both came from small country towns. My town being much smaller, countrier and bogan of course.

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He was the first boyfriend I ever had. I dont think I actually posted anything about him or having a bf, but if anyone wants to know anything about our 'relationship', comment, ask questions, and I might make a new blogpost about it.

:-) Thanks for reading.